Violación Sexual:
The Truth About Rape in Watsonville
Author:
Martha Béjar
Out of the 30 girls in your classroom, 10 of them will
be raped before they die but only one of them will
report it. De eso no se habla. A lo major eso es
parte del problema: que nadie habla este tema.
Most rape victims know their rapist before their
assault. Puede ser su novio o un familiar. Puede se
caulquiera. Rape and sexual assault are acts of
violence. No es una cuestión de sexo; es un acto de
poder. Most rape victims are left feeling powerless,
embarrassed, ashamed, guilty and afraid of being
blamed. Que mala onda, que vivimos en una sociedad
que culpa a la víctima. Women receive many messages
about the way they should dress and act, but the
bottom line is: nada le da a nadie el derecho de
violar tu espacio personal.
Even if you been drinking or using drugs, the law
protects. Guys, si está muy peda y no puede decir que
no, it’s rape! Y si tienes miedo de que te tuerza la
placa por habar estado pistiando cuando te pasó, it’s
not going to happen. You’re protected under the
California Sexual Assault Law.
Sabemos que no es fácil hablar sobre una violación
sexual pero es muy importante placticir con alguien
sobre lo que sucedío. It could be with a friend, a
parent or a teacher. It could be anyone, it just has
to be someone you can really trust. Nunca es bueno
tener tantos sentimientos dentro de ti. It could
worsen your trauma and overwhelm you. It could even
make you want to commit suicide.
If it happens to you or to anyone you know, it’s
important to stay however you were when it happened.
As long as you’re not in danger, don’t change
anything. Repórtalo a la policía dentro de 72 hours
porque nunca es culpa de la víctima. It doesn’t
matter what clothes you had on or how you acted, or
even if you were drunk. Talk to somebody about what
happened and just get help—you’re not alone. Make
sure that you don’t take a bath before you talk to the
police, no matter how dirty you might feel. Don’t
brush your teeth, gargle, or change your clothes.
Don’t go to the bathroom. If you really, really have
to, save your pee and the toilet paper you used. The
police can use all this as evidence.
Here are some tips for everyone out there: no se
pongan tan pedas con vatos porque ustedes nunca saben
cuáles son sus intenciones.
· Try not to walk alone at night—always try to walk
with a friend.
· Siempre mira en los ojos a la gente a tu alrededor.
· Take care of yourself and don’t do anything you
don’t feel comfortable with.
· You always have the right to say no.