Algo Inesperado:
Teen Moms Tell Their Story
Author:
Fabiola Cardenas
Erica Garcia, 16
6 and a half months pregnant
Watsonville High School
For 16 year old Erica Garcia, finding out she was
pregnant was the biggest shock of her life. “I never
thought I would end up pregnant,” she said “fue algo
inesperado.” Erica was not using any type of birth
control, which she now regrets because that could have
prevented a huge change in her life.
The first thing she did when she found out was tell
her boyfriend, who is 19. He was as surprised as she
was—he wasn’t ready to become a Daddy. When they
started dating, her boyfriend would always mention
that he wanted to have a baby, but once his wish came
true, he panicked. So much so that the possibility of
abortion went through his mind. But Erica didn’t want
to have an abortion. Though Erica is still dating the
baby’s father, he is not actively involved with their
child.
Although Erica has supportive parents who help her,
financially and in other ways, her mother is still sad
and feels let down by her daughter, whom she never
thought would become pregnant as a teenager.
Now six and a half months pregnant, Erica is not the
same teenager she used to be. “I can’t go out anymore.
And my dream of going to college seems harder to
reach.” She is now planning to use birth control after
she has her baby. She says she will keep on using it
because she would not like to have a second baby—at
least not anytime soon. “Lo único que les puedo decir
es que se protejan, y que se fijen con cual muchacho
andan, porque es muy bonito de la manera en que
hablan. Pero después, muy pocos de ellos son los que
están dispuestos a seguir a tu lado.”
Yuliana Valdovinos, 17
Mother of a one-year old baby
Watsonville High School
Yuliana Valdovinos is a senior at Watsonville High,
but unlike most girls at her young age, Yuliana has
already formed a family. She’s 17 years old. She lives
with her boyfriend Ignacio, 21, and has a one-year old
baby, also named Ignacio after his dad.
At the beginning of her relationship, Yuliana and her
boyfriend were using condoms to avoid pregnancy, but
they stopped and a surprise came along. “My boyfriend
was the first one to know I was pregnant,” she
says, “he knew even before I did.” He noticed symptoms
in me that I hadn’t even noticed, and told me “Estas
embarazada.” They both went to the clinic so that she
could get tested. The test turned out positive.
The father,Ignacio, works to support Yuliana and her
son, whom she brings along to school every day.
Yuliana’s relationship with her own father was never
very good. She was worried that their relationship
would get worse when he found out she had gotten
pregnant. But instead, they became closer, which is
one good thing that came out of her situation.
“I love my boyfriend, I love my baby, and I love my
life.” Yuliana said as her final thought. “But I think
it might have been better for all three of us, if this
would’ve happened in a different period of time—maybe
a couple of years later.”
Angelica Nava, 16
Mother of a two-year old baby
Watsonville High School
“I had my baby when I was 14 years old. My mom cried
and so did I, because we never thought it would happen
to me,” says Angelica Nava, now 16, who lives with her
parents and her two year old daughter, Brenda Gomez.
Angelica’s case is a bit different from the others.
She has had very little contact with her daughter’s
father since Brenda was born. Her daughter’s dad was
25 years old and she was only 14 when she became
pregnant. He was happy when he found out he would be a
Dad, but he was put on Probation. The court prohibited
him from coming near Angelica and the baby, even
though he does want to see them (or so he says in the
letters that he sometimes still writes to her).
“I now have another boyfriend. And even though he
loves my daughter just as if she were his, I plan to
tell her the truth. And I’d like her to have good
communication with her real dad when she’s older,”
Angelica says.
Angelica never used any source of birth control
before. Realizing that pregnancy is something that can
happen to anyone—including her, she has changed her
mind. Now she protects herself with condoms.
One of the main reasons Angelica wishes she had waited
until she was older, is that her mother cannot help
out because she works. Instead, Angelica has to bring
the baby to school every day. “They help us out here
[at Watsonville High] and they take care of our
babies, but I know that nobody will attend to her as
well as I would myself.”