Under Pressure:
family life, friends and clubs make school difficult
Author:
Serafin Villanueva
“Hey, do you want to ditch class and go to the beach?
The weather is nice. Or how about the mall?”
“No, I can’t, I’ve got a test to take in Algebra.”
This can be a typical scenario for a high school
student. Combined with a busy schedule and the
responsibilities and pressures from family and
extracurricular activities, making the grade is
difficult for many high school students. Having to do
these types of things while dealing with school can be
frustrating and tiring.
Throughout my experiences in school I have faced these
obstacles continuously. Dealing with pressure to do
well on tests and to get my homework done on time
really made me tired throughout my day. Almost all my
classes are college prep, which means I have to work
harder to earn good grades or else I won’t be able to
get into a university. I get a lot more pressure from
all my classes to get my homework completed on time.
Many Latino high school graduates are the first in
their families to go to college. This new generation
of high school students receives a lot of pressure
from parents to fulfill the dream of being accepted
into a university. Having all that weight on their
shoulders actually makes it harder to do well in
school. Many parents don’t know how hard school can be
for their children compared to when they were going to
school.
My parents tell me, “Tienes que ser bien en la escuela
y ser un buen ejemplo para tus hermanos.” I have to do
well in school and be a good example for my brothers
and sisters, they say. They advise me to participate
in school programs so I can use them on my college
application. I joined clubs like MESA, EAOP, and MSA
and was on the football team. But in the end it was
hard to keep up with meetings, homework, friends,
practice, etc.
When I needed help with my classes I knew where to go.
I went to after school tutorial, but they couldn’t be
with me constantly since there were other students who
needed help as well. I couldn’t ask my parents for
help because they don’t have the proper education,
experience or knowledge to help me. My parents expect
me to know everything, but I really don’t know much.
As a sophomore, I have learned things that prepared me
for college. I have seen things happen in life that
can ruin someone’s chances to go to a university and
can ultimately ruin their lives. Drugs, pregnancy, and
bad friends are some of the things students can
encounter on their way. They can take the easy way out
or continue on the long, hard road to success. But
having an education will pay off once they graduate
from a university. People with a college degree make
43 percent more money than those who only have a high
school diploma, and 58 percent more than those who
never graduated high school, according to the U.S.
Census Bureau. Not only will a career pay well for
college graduates, it will also show their
achievements from the hard work and dedication they
gave. That’s my goal; I want to show everyone in the
future that I really did it.
Unfortunately, right now my chances of getting into a
university are growing slim because I did not focus on
what I needed to do in school, but I have my
priorities straightened out now. I have to work twice
as hard to recover from all the things that I have
missed. This is why it is important for freshmen to
not slack off and start the year poorly. They won’t
have to deal with having to go to summer school to get
credits or have to do extra work to raise their
grades. If students start their first year of high
school well and continue to work hard for the next
three years, they won’t have as many problems getting
into a good university. They will do better in their
career and live to see many more achievements in their
life.