In Loving Memory
Author:
Alejandra Nolasco
On February 5, 2005, five
wonderful lives were lost on
Highway 101: Tomacina “Tammy” Uresti, 17, Julio
Prieto, 18, Matthew Escamilla, 18, Andrew Tibbitts 19,
and Evan Kuhn, 21. A tragedy like this was never
expected. We as teens never expect death, especially
if a close friend whom you grew up with dies
prematurely. There is nothing that compares to the
pain many people felt after the news of these five
teenagers who were killed.
I was friends with Tammy, the driver of the vehicle,
for three years. She was the type of person that
always stuck out in a crowd. She was outgoing, caring,
and made friends wherever she went. We had dreams to
graduate and move on to college. So when I found out
she was dead I couldn’t believe it; I was shocked. I
thought I would go to school on Monday and see her
there. Even now I can’t believe it happened. When the
news spread of the tragedy nobody was able to
comprehend the fact that five people they knew were
dead. Many other people were in shock responding with
remarks such as, “I barely talked to them yesterday,
it can’t be them.”
Many people loved the five teens who lost their lives.
At Ramsay Park in Watsonville, where some of the teens
in the accident skateboarded, a mural was made of the
deceased faces. One of the fences at the park has many
flowers and writings. Since Tammy’s favorite color was
purple, the Health Academy, a program Tammy attended
at Watsonville High, provided purple ribbons and
beautiful pictures of Tammy with her most common
quote: “How Exciting!” They also provided purple
candles for Tammy’s funeral. The Watsonville Drama
Club created shirts with her picture.
The teenage years are difficult years. Some teenagers
never make it out alive. We at ShoutOut were shocked
that five of our peer’s lives ended one night last
February, when their car was struck by another car on
Highway 101. We were hit with the disbelief and
realization that life could end so quickly. We thought
we would still see these five people, either at
Watsonville High School or skating at Ramsey Skate
Park, but then we realized we would never see them
again.
Tammy was a very unique person and her death impacted
many people’s lives. “Not many of us can be so open,
so genuinely,” said Amy Shellman, Health Academy
teacher at Watsonville High. “She was a role model for
an optimistic, light hearted attitude and pulling off
a diploma.”
Many teens reacted differently to the accident. For me
the accident opened my mind and made me want to care
for the people that surround me and not to take them
for granted. It made me realize that I will never know
what can happen. “Depending on what a person lacks, is
worried about, who or how they love, all these things
make their grief different,” Shellman said. “It makes
them think about what they haven’t accomplished in
life yet, who they haven’t forgiven, what it means to
leave suddenly.”
I believe it’s important to learn from this tragedy,
to understand the meaning of a person and to
appreciate who we have in our lives. There will be a
day, sometimes unexpected, when the ones we love will
be gone forever and there will be no time to say
goodbye. All we’ll have left is “REST IN PEACE”
and “we’ll always remember you.”