Sex for Love, Love for Sex
Author:
Isabel Martínez
Have you ever thought about, and paid close attention
to, the saying, “Some girls give sex for love and guys
give love for sex.” Weird, huh! So, think are you in
that situation? Have you ever questioned yourself?
Girls: Are you a girl who gives sex for love? So, you
have sex because you feel loved or cared for? Would it
still be love if you got pregnant and he’s not there?
Does sex for love mean your body is not worth much and
you would rather be touched all over just for the fake
love you receive in exchange? Is this the so-
called “strong relationship?”
Boys: So you are one of those guys that gives love for
sex? You are categorized by writing love notes,
bringing down the stars, taking your girl out to eat,
hugging, and all that just for sex. Is this all worth
it? When that ends, is there another victim? You want
a good reputation from being seen with a lot of
different girls? Can you be in a serious relationship
and have sex with real emotions?
Just face the fact that one of those people you’re
sleeping around with can cause you to get an STD.
That’s real, not fake. What will you do next when that
fake love for sex turns out to be a baby, then what?
Guys, stop lying and hurting yourselves. Look at all
the bad you are doing and the risks you are taking.
Hypocrisy will not get you far.
Why lie to yourself? Would all this change for a girl
if they stop having sex with their boyfriends? If you
are in a relationship and the guy (or sometimes a
girl) does wonderful things for you, is it because of
the sex? Why would you want to be in a relationship
like that, being used? Take action and value yourself.
Sex for love, or love for sex, isn’t worth it!