The Quinceañera Tradition
Author:
Ana Alamo, Ana Cervantes
What does Quinceañera mean? Basically, a Quinceañera
is a Latino tradition for girls that are changing from
a little girl into a grown up lady. It also means that
you are becoming fifteen years old. In the past, girls
at the age of fifteen were only good to get married
and have kids.
Quinceañeras are a big thing. That means that planning
it is hard, but doing it is even harder. You need to
find padrinos, chambelanes, and damas. The Quinceañera
picks padrinos of honor, which play a special part of
the ceremony. They are the highest of all the
padrinos, which are also known as godfathers. The part
that padrinos play in Quinceañeras is that they help
pay for the expenses of the party, such as jewelry,
the hall, and invitations. Then there’s the
chambelanes who are hot young guys that dance with
damas. The damas are involved in the dance because
they are the closest friends of the Quinceañera. The
main chambelan is the one that dances the first dance
with the Quinceañera.
The dress is the hardest part to choose, because every
girl wants the best dress, and, as you know, we girls
are really picky. Girls wish everything would be
perfect, but it isn’t. People told us stories of how
they tripped, how someone hit someone else, the damas’
dresses ripping, and they forgot how to dance the
traditional waltz. It’s all true, but it’s normal for
something to go wrong. DON’T BE SCARED!
Nowadays, some girls have the choice between getting a
car or celebrating their Quinceañera. There are girls
that pick the car because they want more freedom to go
where they want and when they want. And, there are
girls that pick the Quinceañera because it’s an
important part of their tradition or culture.
Quinceañeras are celebrated by Latinas while other
cultures celebrate the “sweet sixteen” or eighteenth
birthday. The thing that we would tell a girl is that
they should do their Quinceañera how they want,
because you become fifteen only once. You can’t take
it back or change it ever again.